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What is mediation?
We can define the mediation as a process by which two or more parts establish a communication in a particular time and space exchanging feelings, opinions or other information through methods (speaking, writing, diagrams ...) which are understandable to both.
Why going to mediation?
Because the peaceful manner is the only practical and durable solution to solve conflicts among multiple parties.
If you want to impose your will on others and they just do what you want, that solution cannot be sustainable, as it does not allow the general welfare, but only yours. And your situation can not be guaranteed for a long time, if your position of power causes suffering to others.
The imbalance of these situations lead to a traumatic end to all the parts involved.
I do not believe in the power of some dominating others, but in respect by all for all. Let us leave behind prejudice, selfishness and resentment from past situations and begin to build a future of peace and balance, because only from equilibrium it is possible to collaborate in a way that everybody wins.
If we approach our problems only pretending to "win the other",
we all lose.
If we approach our problems in a more mature way, collaborating for a common goal,
we all win.
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